Altar Bound

Dear Whitney & Liria,

My mom hates my fiance Bill. She doesn't even try to get along with him. We're getting married in two months and I don't know what to do. All this fighting is making me crazy!

Altar Bound

Whitney Says:

Dear Altar,

First off, ask yourself if your mom has a perspective that you might not.

1. Does your finace treat you well?

2. Does he love you?

3. Does he cherish you?

If the answer to all of these questions is yes, it's time to schedule a meeting with your mother.

Here's what you need to express to her:

1. Bill loves me.

2. You've already made your choice, now let me make mine.

3. Bill and I are going to build a life together. We hope you will be a part of that life but if you are, you have got to accept us as a couple and quit picking fights.

This will leave the ball entirely in her court. Let her decide if she can live within the boundaries you have set up. If she says she can, hold her to it. If she says she can't then be prepared to have a wedding without her. Serve her one of my KILLER GRILLED CHEESE SANDWICHES. It may just help her see the light!

Happiness is in your own hands~

Liria Says:

Dear Bound,

Mothers usually say their piece and then stand silently and quietly by their daughter's decisions. What's up with your mom and your fiance that they are fighting? I don't like that mom is picking fights. But it takes two to actually... you know, fight. What's your fiance's role in this tango?

It's crunch-time for you, Altar. You've got to assess this one and your future is riding on it. I'd hate to see you unhappily bound on the other side of the altar.

Make them both a KILLER GRILLED CHEESE SANDWICH and let them know how much you hate being in the middle. You need to speak to both of them now. It's too important to forever hold your piece.

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