Trying For Cyber Love

Dear Whitney and Liria,

I've recently signed up with an on-line dating service. Do you think this is a good way to meet men?

Trying for Cyber Love

Whitney Says:

Dear Trying,

I have been with the same man for seventeen years and therefore have a healthy skepticism about computer generated love. I'm not saying that it's wrong, it just makes me nervous. I mean, who are these men? Are they felons? Do they smell? It's just so easy to lie about yourself online. Take a picture for instance. Someone can post a photo of themselves that's ten years old and has been doctored within an inch of its' life. It seems to me that you have to wade through a lot of crap to find someone worthy.

Hence, I am going to throw this question to Liria. As a singleton, herself, I think she may have some better advice for you.

Try my Salmon Mousse, its delicious!

Liria Says:

Hey Whit,

Just because I've been around the virtual block a time or two doesn't mean I've got ALL the answers. But I'll give it go...

Dear Trying,

In the virtual dating world, there are three things to remember:

1.) If it doesn't work, you can't take it personally.
2.) If you don't have his number (and that's LAND line, Darlin') he's married.
3.) Before you cast a wide net (geographically speaking) make sure you're really willing to relocate (or he is). It is NOT PLEASANT to fall in love with someone and then find that suburban Baltimore is not a place you can spend the rest of your life. (Don't ask!)

Once you've navigated the waters above, send him a basket of our baked goods. That way, he knows you're domestic and you know his address! The most important tool for a serious on-line love quest? A good private investigator!

Snoop on McDuff!

Comments

[Ginny From the Block]

I’ve dated every potential ax murderer with with a profile on the dating sites! What happened to meeting great guys through your friends? I’m starting to think this is folklore.
Ginny

[Takes the Cake]

I’ve met tons of nice guys online, just not the right one yet, but I know of couples that met online and even got married - go for it!

[Veronica From Mars]

I met a really great guy through my best friend. Then he left me for her. I’m staying with Match.com from here on out. Not sure my single friends can be trusted.

[She Was a Showgirl]

Whitney is WAY out of date! Who hasn’t dabbled in online romance? Just be careful. Meet for lunch first, that way you can escape if necessary. Also, I agree with Liria, get his address so you can send him some goodies! Keep us posted.
Lola

[Take the Cake]

Go for it - the internet can be a wonderful way to meet men - just be careful!!!

[Angie]

I love talking with guys on line, you’ll find someone